Getting Started with Male Chastity

New to chastity? Start here!

This guide will help you understand the basics and decide if male chastity might be right for your relationship.

Choose Your Path

Just Curious?

Learn what male chastity is really about and whether it might work for your relationship.

Start Learning

Ready to Talk?

Get guidance on having that first conversation with your partner.

Communication Guide

Essential First Steps

Having That First Conversation

If You're Bringing It Up

  • Choose a relaxed, private moment
  • Focus on relationship benefits
  • Be prepared for questions
  • Suggest exploring together
Detailed Guide for Wearers

If Your Partner Brought It Up

  • Take time to process
  • Ask questions about motivations
  • Explore resources together
  • Set boundaries and expectations
Guide for Keyholders

Safety Essentials

Important Safety Information

Before trying any chastity device, understand these critical safety points:

  • Proper fit is essential to prevent injury
  • Always have emergency removal methods
  • Start with short wearing periods
  • Monitor for any signs of circulation problems
Read Full Safety Guide

What's Next?

Once you've covered the basics, consider these next steps:

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