A Balanced Guide to Male Chastity

Welcome! This is a guide for couples curious about consensual male chastity. You'll learn how chastity can improve communication, build trust, and add excitement to your relationship.

What is male chastity? In the context of this website, it involves the man wearing a secure device (often called a cage) that prevents sexual activity without his partner's involvement. His partner becomes the keyholder—the person who decides when the device comes off. This creates a unique dynamic where anticipation, trust, and communication become central to your intimate connection. It's completely safe when done correctly (see our Health & Safety guide), and can be explored at whatever pace feels comfortable for both of you.

If you're just curious or ready to give it a try, you'll find clear guidance, real-world advice, and resources we think might be useful for partners who value equality, consent, and mutual pleasure.

Balanced, not one-sided: We frame chastity as a shared practice open for communication and adjustment. There is no single script; duration, rituals, and unlock pacing are adjusted to maintain mutual desire, emotional comfort, and authentic consent.