“C” had been playing with chastity for a while before he talked to me about it. It started a long time ago when he bought a clear plastic cage. I remember first reading about chastity belts in Anne Rice's “Beauty” series, and it interested me. I tried to be a good partner and play along, but it wasn't very realistic to wear outside the bedroom, and things soon tapered off.
At some point, C found a cage-like device that he could wear all the time, and that changed things. He didn't need to be unlocked every day so holding the keys became much easier. Once he was wearing it all the time, I finally started to see some of the changes that had been promised.
First, he seems happier. He has told me that he feels guilty about masturbating and orgasming without me, and he seems happiest when he doesn't have the choice. This also means that he is always ready for sex. Times during the week when he might previously have been too busy, or distracted, or just not in the mood, suddenly become an enthusiastic 'Yes!' I think we actually have sex more often, and better sex, which is not something I expected.
Another benefit to me is that the toilet seat is always down and there is no mess. Having grown up with a bunch of brothers, I absolutely hate having a messy, pissy bathroom. I cannot stand a sticky floor around the toilet. With C locked up I finally got to enjoy my fantasy- a clean bathroom. It is heaven.
I don't subscribe to the notion that I need to constantly tease or edge him just because he's locked up. Our interactions remain the same, except he can't masturbate or stand to pee without the key. This simplicity works for us, and I enjoy the normalcy and spontaneity of our sex life without the need for schedules or spreadsheets controlling what he and I can do and when.
There are some downsides, like the hassle of key management and occasional whining, but these are minor compared to the benefits. C has learned that whining doesn't get him anywhere, and the convenience of a clean bathroom and his increased enthusiasm more than make up for any inconveniences.
Overall, C's chastity has been a very positive addition to our relationship. It took some time to figure out, but I see no reason to stop. It has brought us closer, made C happier, made me happier, and even improved the cleanliness of our home. I am grateful that he is willing to do this for us, and that it works so well.
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